We talk about what is and what isn't normal, but in reality "Normal" is only a relative term. What some call normal is abnormal for others (what is normal for a spider is chas for the fly).

Everything in life is perspective based and that is relative to our understanding, background, education, religion and cultural habits. Our views on life can at times even make us wonder perhaps "Am I normal" in relation to others and vice versa.

The rule of thumb is as long as you don't harm others directly then your freedom and right as a human being allows you to be or what is pertinent to your life. Your life is not anyone else's business unless you harm others.

Never be put off by the opinions of others - they are just that opinions - which is more about them than you.

Never be put off by religious leaders they have no more connection to God than you and in today's climate are probably not as honest and sincere.

Be yourself at all times you don't need permission for this nor do you need to be sorry if others don't like it, never give away your authority.